My introduction to RWA occurred because of a book signing. I was out with my wife and kids shopping at a mall. While we were in a bookstore (my favorite spot in any mall, along with a coffee shop), I overheard an announcement that two authors were now at the store entrance signing books. As I was working furiously on my first manuscript, a humorous, self-deprecating look at marriage, I headed to the front of the store to meet them.
It was there I discovered that the two authors wrote romance novels.
Part of me wanted to leave. It wasn’t due to any disdain for the genre. I’d never read a romance novel and had no opinion of them. However, one thought swirled through my head. Can I ask a few questions about the industry and yet not feel obligated to buy one? More importantly, what would my wife say I did buy one?
Still, my desire to be published pushed me forward. Two accomplished authors sat before me, even if they wrote romance. As I approached, I feared what they might think about a guy approaching them. It was the literary equivalent of a male walking up to an employee at Victoria’s Secret.
The two multi-published authors, Anna DeStefano and Jennifer St. Giles, could not have been more gracious. They answered every question I had and I must have quizzed them for at least fifteen minutes. They even mentioned their writer’s group, Georgia Romance Writers (GRW), and suggested I should stop by. They claimed to have male members and said that I wouldn’t feel out of place. (Yeah, like I really believed that one.) Besides, as they pointed out, the manuscript I was working on was geared to women. Who better to teach me how to market my book than their group?
At the end of the Q&A, I asked them, “How can I thank you?”
It was Anna who said with a smile, “Well, you could buy a book.”
Like I feared, I knew that was coming. And I knew I needed to do it. I looked down at the two books and scanned the covers and the blurbs. One was a sweet, slightly suspenseful love story. It had a cover clearly emblazoned with the word “Harlequin.” The other one, a paranormal, looked interesting, except that it had a shirtless male with ripped abs on the cover.
Which was the lesser of two evils?
I chose the Harlequin novel, Anna’s book. I couldn’t fathom going to the counter with the other one, much less my wife seeing it. Anna signed it, messing up the first copy as my name was similar to her brother’s. And then I left.
A few months later, I did eventually make it to a GRW meeting. I’d taken my wife and kids to the airport early that morning so they could visit my wife’s parents in Los Angeles. I’d spent the previous night in a Barnes & Noble with my kids at a Harry Potter Deathly Hallows release party, getting home some time after 1:00 a.m. Given the little sleep I’d had, I’m surprised I didn’t sleep through the meeting. I bumped into Anna there, who remembered me from the signing.
That was over three years ago.
I’ve bought quite a few more books in this genre since that day, including Jennifer’s book with the half-naked male on top (as well the other three books in Jennifer’s four-book series), several books of Anna’s, and a whole host of authors I would have never even heard of if not for that day. However, there are still book covers that make me blush and some storylines I can’ t even begin to consider reading. And given my likes/dislikes, that probably won’t change.
But then that makes me like everyone else at the meeting.
How about you? Have you ever bought a book solely because of the cover or declined to buy one for the same reason? In the case of the covers you declined on, did you ever change your mind? I would love to hear about it.
Thank you for coming by, Walt. It's great to hear your story and hear about your start writing romance novels. Best of luck in all your publishing ventures!!
~ Rebecca Lynn
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